AI first mate for virtual assistants

Every great assistant deserves a first mate.

Firstme is an AI first mate for virtual assistants and VA agencies, now in private beta. It works from what you tell it about each client and takes on tasks alongside you, and you check its work before anything that cannot be undone.

Client ANew email
Client BMeeting request
Client CMorning check
Nothing crosses without you
Illustrative. Example clients are invented.

How it works

Firstme does the preparation. You make the call.

Every task follows the same three steps, whatever the client and whatever the request.

  1. Firstme drafts

    It reads the request and what you have told it about that client, and prepares a first pass.

  2. You review and change

    Approve it, edit it or throw it away. Each draft shows what it is based on.

  3. You decide

    Nothing is sent or booked until you say so. The client relationship stays yours.

See how it works

Status

What’s live and what’s next

Dated 10 November 2026. Quarters count from July 2026.

Live today

  • A private beta, used only inside the Firstme team for now.
  • In the beta, you give Firstme a company’s working information, such as documents, notes and preferences, and it keeps them in a searchable knowledge base.
  • It then works alongside the assistant on that company’s tasks, and a person reviews its work before anything that cannot be undone.
  • The beta does not connect to anyone’s email or calendar, and does nothing outside Firstme by itself.
  • You can write to Adaora about your work, and opt in to the design-partner group.

Next

  • Q4 2026. Inbox triage in the beta. Calendar proposals. A published trust and approval guide.
  • Q1 2027. Agency plans with shared playbooks and admin controls.
  • Later. The morning client digest. Learning your style from your edits. Follow-ups and invoice nudges. Integrations with common client tools.

Team

Who is building it

  • Adaora Igwebuike

    Founder

    Adaora founded Firstme after more than seven years as a virtual assistant for several companies. She leads its work with the assistants and agencies it is built for.

Tell Adaora how you work

We are still building the boat, and the first crew shape it. Tell us how you work and we will write when there is a place for you.